I grew up in Raleigh, North Carolina, and my story began with challenges that taught me resilience, hope, and the strength of community. My early life was marked by adversity—complex family circumstances, limited stability, and the need to be self-reliant from a young age. These experiences shaped my deep empathy for anyone navigating tough transitions.
Despite these beginnings, I was determined to carve out new opportunities. In high school, I took on leadership roles in student government, played varsity soccer all four years, was twice named Youth of the Year at my local Boys & Girls Club, and graduated on-time with academic scholarships for college. My college years were just as full—I founded a “Big Brother/Sister” organization, joined Air Force ROTC, and graduated with a degree at 21.
Over the years, my professional journey has been just as dynamic. I’ve worked as a military officer, in corporate management at three Fortune 500 companies, as an administrator and educator on three college campuses, a nonprofit CEO, and entrepreneur. My education includes an undergraduate degree in Business Administration and a Master’s in Human Resource Development. Just as meaningful, I spent over 23 years as a foster, adoptive, and foreign exchange student parent. I’m honored to still be called a father figure by 10+ remarkable young people. Giving back and building community have been central to my life’s work—and I’m grateful every day for the partnership and support of my husband.
My Coaching Philosophy & Approach
At CHM Coaching, everything I do centers around partnership, authenticity, and empowerment. With over 40 years of lived and professional experience, I help people move forward when they feel stuck—whether facing a major life transition, seeking personal growth, or feeling uncertain about the path ahead.
My coaching style is compassionate, non-judgmental, and tailored to your unique strengths and goals. I believe every person has the power to clarify their vision, harness their strengths, and maximize their opportunities. We work as a team: together, we’ll create a practical, achievable action plan that supports your goals, values, and well-being. My role isn’t to be the “expert” telling you what to do—I’m here as your thought partner, helping you see new perspectives, push through barriers, and gain the confidence to take that next step.
Whether you want to gain clarity, develop your strengths, improve resilience, manage stress, or make the most of life’s transitions, I create a safe and motivating space for you to grow. No two journeys are alike, so our work together is always personalized for where you are and where you want to go.
If you’re ready for a genuine, supportive coaching relationship that helps you unlock your best self—you’re in the right place.